Only a healthy individual who loves and cares for himself can truly love and care for someone else. A person who cannot embrace their own flaws will find accepting others as they are very difficult.
So it is not selfish to first love yourself, care for yourself to be able to then take care of someone else.
Just think about it, how can you light someone else’s path when you yourself are living in shadows.
So, it’s not selfish to love yourself first, but to love ONLY yourself is.
Much love and light, everyone!